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Thursday, April 23, 2009

Lab Lessons


I have held labs for 125 students all week - shopping for $500 worth of groceries -- I'm worn out with labs -- and have one more week to go. We go to the grocery store before this final lab to explore unit pricing and making decisions on a budget. The students love lab experiences and they seem to apply themselves more to the other assignments I give, knowing they'll get their time in the lab to prove their culinary genius.

So many times I have to ask my students when the prepared product fell short of the picture in the cookbook - What did we learn from this?  
Essentially, labs in food prep prepare them to be pretty good cooks at the end of six weeks -- well not chef status -- but at least sous chef.
 
Though we do various activities to illustrate concepts - like creating mock families, building their own "house" out of craft objects, holding a mock wedding and managing a mock budget --I have often thought how valuable it would be to be able to create labs for some of the other life situations they might have to face -- relationship break-ups,  financial bail-outs when they have ruined their credit, facing serious illness or picking themselves up when they have given into something more powerful than they realized.

I started my life skills course by saying -- I want you to not just SURVIVE - but THRIVE! I tell them they are on the front porch of the rest of their lives and I don't want them to live SCARED -- but SMART. When they make a mistake in lab -- I often ask, "and what did you learn from THAT?" My seniors will be graduating soon.-- I hope I have them well prepared --I guess the question I should ask myself now about my course instruction is and "And what did they learn from THIS?"



Sunday, April 19, 2009

Teaching the book of Job to Primaries or "Who Signed Me Up for That?"?


Today it fell my task to teach the basics of the book of Job to my 1st - 5th graders. These are my kids who have been sitting in worship for an hour and a half and have just tanked up on donuts.
I have to first tell you who is in my class - I've changed their names to keep you guessing. :)
There is:
Sweetie Pie cute as a bug, can sing like a cherub .
Pete who is smart as a whip but sees himself more as a cowboy than a kid -
There's Slim who knows as much about the latest Superhero video as anybody and can tell you all about him whether you want to hear it or not. . . they know their Bibles -- when they want to give up an answer.
There's Sam -- who would prefer you not ask him questions, but follows carefully as we discuss and read our Bibles - and Phil who gives the most precious grin and tries hard to keep up with a teacher who talks far too fast.
Lastly, there's Will and Joe both tenderhearted to the core and can teach you about God's love with a single hug -- but you'd better keep it moving, lady -- or they're out the door if you don't have a pretty good dog and pony show.

So they bounded in the door, took off for the Junior High room and I wondered how could I keep their focus. I thought the first thing we would do was to have a "boo - boo" contest to see who had the worst scrape or cut and award  5 new bandaids to the kid with the ugliest scar-- surely that would be a good parallel to Job's boils.  For a group that usually has skinned knees and banged up elbows everybody was in pretty good shape. . . so that sort of bombed. (Should have brought the camo or super-hero band-aids.)

Then I took them to the trash pit out behind the building and showed them the type of place Job sat scraping his booboos with a broken pot.   I even broke an old flower pot to give them the idea of what Job's life became -- nobody offered up their scratches or scrapes to try it out.

I stressed what a blameless and upright man Job was and that he offered sacrfices and worshipped God. Slim thought that would have cut his supply of cows to offer up one for each of his 10 kids every time they gave a big party.

Their biggest questions of the day -- "Was this before Satan was kicked out of Heaven?" - that was Slim.
They get pretty fascinated with Satan's fall -- especially Pete and Slim so they honed in on the conversation between the devil and the angels. They wondered if it was like The Emperor's New Groove where there was an angel on one shoulder and a devil on the next. They were thrilled to know the verse about their own angels. I wonder if they keep some of their's pretty busy.
"Did Job's children go to the bad place (you mean Hell?)- when they died?" -- Joe wanted to know.
 Nobody knew for sure what an oxen was.  They're weren't sure what it meant to be upright.
No, Job didn't give up and curse God.  (though I did hear some bad language in class that I probably should have addressed).

I stressed that Job still worshipped after his first big losses --Joe continued to read the verse that said that Job was naked when he came into the world and naked when he was taken out. ("Naked" made Joe giggle)

In conclusion
They all agreed that Satan was testing Job and that yes remaining faithful was the right thing to do. I suddenly realized that they had gotten pretty quiet and were intent on Joe's reading -- he loves to read. They were working hard on filling in their verses. They liked the part where his brothers and sisters came and gave silver coins and a gold ring. (This was a good place for a ring pop treat.)  With blue lips and tongues sucking on their ring pops, they did the math and realized that God blessed Job twice as much  for remaining faithful.

How do you teach a child that tests and trials come when we least expect or deserve them?  There was no way I could explain  the questions Job had for God nor could I help them understand his pain was compounded by the stress of feeling abandoned.  They're too young to realize that at times life is not fair and that we just have to accept and believe that God is in charge and HE will bring us through.

When calamity strikes or our lives get disrupted ever wonder, "Who signed me up for that?"

Several of my family members were no strangers to suffering:  My Dad with muscular dystrophy, my Mother-in-Law with post-polio syndrome, my mother with Lou Gehrig's disease and most recently in the past 5-6 years my husband, with rheumatoid arthritis.  Each of my dear ones, over time, accepted and endured the pain and still kept on faithfully loving and believing their God.  My husband has been my greatest teacher most recently in handling and coping with searing pain.  Every morning, he dutifully got up and continued his pursuit of God.  Even when ministry efforts weren't always rewarded with success.

We're in the season now where healing and relief have come!!!
Like Job, we're twice blessed to have learned lessons through the pain and come through to now enjoy this time of healing and refreshing!!! Blessed be Jehovah Rapha! (Our Healer)




Saturday, April 18, 2009

Living Your Dream - Fulfilling Your Life Goals

Recently our son, Marshall, said to me "Mom, can you believe it - I'm going to be a surgeon? I am so happy in what I am doing!" I will have to say that about his sophmore year of high school my prayer was "Lord, help that boy learn how to read." He hated English, wasn't too keen on math and had as his life goal to be a drummer and make lots of money so he could support us in old age in a good nursing home."

He presently is in India having just finished a surgery rotation there, another of his goals.


Our daughter said two years ago, I'm fulfilling one of my life goals to run the '07 Chicago marathon." Her Daddy had to stay at his post in the pulpit and our son-in-law and I became marathon buddies as we raced from checkpoint to checkpoint in the Windy City to get a glimpse of her several times during the race. Next weekend they both run the Big Sur-- another of their life goals - to run one together.

I teach goal-setting to my high school juniors and seniors and I try to motivate them to envision a life beyond the high school hallways- envision a life lived large. I had to ask myself -- "Jan, what are your present life goals?" I had to admit I have achieved most of the things I desired to do -- marry a good man, have a family and be a teacher and really hadn't verbalized any major life goals in a long time -- I work to meet my deadlines, finish the myriad of projects I create and just try to make it till Fall Break, Christmas Holidays, President's Day . . . etc.

I don't want to stop before I'm finished so I have begun to challenge myself to dream big again, asking what I could do now with my life in these "empty nest" years? -- There are still people to serve and lessons to teach -- family to love and friends to enjoy . . there are places I'd love to do mission work with my family. Paul said it best, "pressing on to reach the prize of the high calling." PRESSING ON -- sounds like we are to do some goal setting while we're keeping on.
-- It's sure to be an adventure -- God promises to make the way sweet as we run (or walk) to our Ultimate Goal -- the prize of the High Calling.

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