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Friday, April 24, 2020

CELEBRATING BETHANY --40 YEARS OF LOVING YOU,




I'm not going to say it -- it seems I start so many posts with "Where has the time gone?"    But wasn't it just yesterday we brought you home from the hospital, Bethany?

During the month before your birthday, I kept thinking how could we celebrate you in a meaningful way -- I prayed for just the right way to celebrate YOU! Long before the virus - - I began to think of photos I wanted to include in a book highlighting your special moments.  But the book couldn't say it all and these are some pics that didn't all make it into your book.


You were the baby who hated to nap and toddler who wanted to stay up long past your bedtime.  That same energy you put into each and every day -- running at early dawn and playing tennis, working out, running marathons.

You were the avid reader and still are -- finishing 12 books to my every one -- We could never take enough books on vacation -- on our long drives -- you read the whole way.

I'd like to think you got your cooking skills from my kitchen -- but I don't know that that is necessarily the case.  Your sense of good nutrition and planning makes you a terrific chef.



Halloween was and is such a big deal for you  -- we made all sorts of costumes and even now your kids have some of the best.



You and Marshall always made the most creative games -- making up obstacle courses -- trampoline games (jumping out of that little playhouse on to the tramp)-- or music videos.

You have always drawn on inner strength when times were hard - with moves to new schools and churches, college struggles.  You always accepted the challenge to adjust and work through the difficult times.

You've never been afraid of hard work -- working in high school, college, teaching, outdoor activities.  



Shelby Georjean was your favorite doll and she traveled with you wherever we went cross country.  .  . you were as devoted to that cabbage patch doll as you are your children today.  You are such a good mommy!  It is such a joy to be Nana to your being Momma.


 You and Mat are a beautiful
team and we have loved watching you do life together these 14 years.

You were always creative and a party planner.  When you were six you came and asked me who all I wanted you to invite to my surprise birthday party.  You host the most wonderful parties and family get-togethers now.   Coming to your house in Kansas City was always like getting away on a retreat -- you and Mat always took such good care of us.

Your depth of insight has been a part of you all your life.  Quiet and thoughtful before you speak has been your personality.  I see you as being the family "Grace Giver" -- taking the high road -- looking for the most positive outlook.

You've been right there beside me-- helping me care for Mom -- being my sounding board -- helping me walk through cancer.  Creating all sorts of milestones and special moments along the way.


People are drawn to you -- always giving your friends a listening heart.  .  . being there for their special moments.  You used to keep our house full of friends when you were in high school.  Now your house is overflowing.  

Mat created the Ultimate Surprise on Friday  --


Your Friends paraded and surprised you on Saturday  


We got to break quarantine and join you on Saturday night



You think globally and have a strong sense of community.  .  . whether it is your block parties, neighborhood associations or supporting friends in small businesses.  

When you were just weeks old and very tiny we dedicated you to God at a Sunday evening Church service.  I see you now, loving Jesus - being a strong part of your Church family and sharing his love with others.  That touches me down deep.   Loving you so,
mom & dad


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