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Tuesday, May 31, 2016

Off to Colorado

  • It had been 4 months since we'd seen this little gal and as soon as I was out of school we hurried to Denver to be with her and her mommy and daddy
We enjoyed a relaxing time of just hanging out with the 3 Bells and doing Clara's schedule.  We 
love getting into projects as they are transforming the house they bought last August right before little C came on the scene.

The Bell men take on a sprinkler project

while the 3 Bell gals do a couch re-model

Clara didn't know what to think of all that fluff stuff






We loved our babysitting times - Momma and Daddy headed to a wedding -- only their 4th time out without her since Clara was born last August



While momma a daddy were away, Papa decided that it was time to check out the greenspace in their neighborhood
This little lady is always ready with the most precious smile



Sunday, May 15, 2016

Breadbasket of Friends

Through the 40+  years of ministry, serving in large congregations and small with Terry,  I realized how many different types of friends I have.  I don't know what sent me there -- but I realized that they are a lot like my favorite breads.

I decided to make my list.

. . . .honey buns - loving huggers,  lavish with compliments - they remember your birthday and treat you like a queen.

. . . .bagels- with you in the tough stuff - call to ask how you are and really want to know. . .they don't mind listening as you go ino ALL the details.

. . .tortilla - you have a relationship you are building with this person, be it a new co-worker, new in-law - just like tortillas needs something

. . . whole grain - back to basic friends - maybe your "Word Girl" friend who will tell you truth and drop the Word on you from time to time - this is probably the one you trust with your secrets and realize they will tell you the truth if that outfit makes you look fat.

. . .pita bread -- your ethnic friends or ones from cultures so different from your own- be it family background, or religion or country - they expand your world view

. . .croissant - your artsy friends

. . . crackers -- these are the spicy, spirited, quick wit and maybe even a little sassy ones

. . .raisin nut bread - your crazy nutty friends who keep you from taking yourself too seriously

. . .rice cake friends -- they are the ones who NEED us and that enriches us as we give and serve them - could be someone that you mentor or an elderly lady that you visit from time to time.

Or it may be that you have a friend who's the whole bread basket!

I am blessed with all these types of friends --

Sunday, May 8, 2016

Mom







So much of my life is tied up in my relationship with you.  The things you taught me still echo through my head each and every day.  .  . matters of faith . . . life . . . and love.
As a young girl you were my best friend . . .
 As a teenager - I would hear others gripe about their moms but you were my rock and strong place. . .

You taught me what to look for in a husband and gave me a standard to live up to.

As a young college student you set me down one day and reminded me that my grades weren't what you and Dad had in your budget and that I should apply myself.

As a young preacher's wife and first year teacher, you would have us for Sunday lunch after Church services and give us our laundry that you had done --- you knew that my plate was full and overflowing and you didn't want me to get overwhelmed—so you did our laundry EVERY week that school year.
As a mom of two active little ones I called you often and asked "what abouts" all the time -- what about that little one who doesn't stay in bed? --- what about that fever or rash?
BUT ALWAYS . . . you were there to pray for me and our family.  I knew all I had to do was call and you would be faithful to do so and not give up.





You were always the hub of our family and the center of it all. .  . you could stretch a dime – make ANYTHING from scratch.

In your later years -- you taught us so much about how to live with the struggles of life.  We watched you be Dad's physical support and care for him for 15+ years.  You taught us commitment and dedication.



In your own life battle you taught us so much about living with faith and grace at the end of life.  You made us laugh -- you gave bits of wisdom --  you told us how much you loved us.
  I loved getting  you ready for bed at night and I'm remembering those sweet words you spoke to me.  We’d talk over our day – read the Bible – and share.
It was my honor and joy to get to care for you as you had cared for us all these years.  This weekend, I'm thinking of you thankful for your being in my life!!!


Friday, May 6, 2016

Happy Birthday, Marshall!

Daddy on call on his birthday -- so Clara and Mommy make a hospital visit
It's not been that long as I look back since you were just that little guy with lots of questions, Marshall.  Now look at you -- all grown up with a child of your own.
She's so much like you in so many ways and every bit as much like her momma -- that's what makes the miracle of birth so exciting -- the strength of both of you in a special little person.  
Having your own child and watching them grow in the way they are "bent" is one life's greatest joy.


In Clara's ready smile we see you at that age with the same engaging smile that drew people in.
Today we celebrate you and your successes --
We wish we could be there with you - but know that we are celebrating the person you are today and every day!


Love you to the moon and back!

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