NOV. 2
It has been a difficult season for Terry - he has been limited to home, losing track of how many Sundays that he has been unable to attend Church services.
I have watched him suffer with brutal pain for months. We have spent two years going to two different orthopedic doctors and two different neurosurgeons. His back was the issue we were told. He was also told that for the level of pain he was enduring his back, though a mess, was not all the cause.
BUT GOD - (Terry has always said those are the two most powerful words) put him in a Journey group class with a young physician that Bethany and Mat had met on their mission to the Dominican Republic last Fall. This young doctor - who knows the specifics of rheumatoid - has been a source of spiritual and medical support and took Terry as his patient -- though he has a very full case load.
Dr. Geister has left no stone unturned in finding the help Terry has needed. He sent Terry to a neurosurgeon who - upon examining him felt that his hips were a problem to be considered. The test revealed severe damage to his hips and so Dr. Geister recommended we see Dr. Scott Reid as a hip surgeon, well known for his skill and ability to have a patient heal quicker and free of pain.
Terry has been on a walker for months. HE NOW IS FREE OF THE BRUTAL PAIN ON HIS LEFT SIDE AND AWAITING THE SECOND HIP SURGERY DECEMBER 2.
I found myself consumed with the suffering I was witnessing in Terry. My mood was often somber and it was always a part of my conversation with others.
We found ourselves doubtful that finally Terry could get some relief.
I fasted from social media - to give myself more fully to praying.
The morning before his surgery as we finished up reading the Old Testament, God gave me this verse that I had never read before --
The Sun of Righteousness will rise up with healing in its wings and he will go out leaping like calves from the stall. Mal. 4:2In that moment, I knew that a brighter day was coming.
Countless people have been praying for it. We are humbled by how many people have prayed.
Surgery day - Sept 30, within an hour - Terry was helped to his feet and the therapists began working with his walking.
TODAY - almost 5 weeks later THERE IS NO PAIN IN THE LEFT HIP.
Thursday night - Halloween- Terry said he wanted to get out his old Children's ministry gorilla costume and hand out candy to the kids who came by. He later said -- "I don't know when I have felt like having fun."
I don't fully know the purpose of trials and suffering - except that each time we go through a difficult season - we lean in more completely on our Father. As we have been home bound - He has shown us in HIS WORD that HE is with us.
DEC. 24
As the left hip healed the right hip pain became more and more intense. Dr. Reid scheduled the right hip replaced on Dec. 2. The healing at first was slower as post surgery pain was intense. HOWEVER after one week, Terry could feel himself turn the corner.
Each day he sets new goals and has after 3 weeks been able to attend Church services on this past Sunday.
God has sent us two spirit-led Physical Therapists and yesterday, Linda reminded him that his weakness was because of two major surgeries within two months.
HOPE has returned once again.
I awoke this morning with 1 Peter 5 on my mind where the apostle talks to those enduring suffering -- "After you have suffered a little while, the God of all grace will restore, confirm, strengthen and establish you."
I don't know what God has in store for this man of HIS in the months ahead --
Through it all - God has sent him classes to teach, people to counsel by phone - ministers to encourage. May Jesus be lifted up and God be glorified.
One thing I have said to Terry in all of this season -- "You gotta get your hips healed - you have more Grandkids to baptize".